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POV: You're in a neurodivergent partnership TRYING to have a conversation, but then this happens...
Does this sound familiar?: The topic keeps changing or getting interrupted Your partner keeps walking out of the room while you're...


The 3 non-negotiables for a strong marriage
After my partner and I realized we NEEDED to figure our 💩 out or lose our marriage, we came up with some non-negotiables. We found these...


Partners who are burned out carrying the mental load, listen up!
If you live a good deal of your partnership in resentment and irritation, feeling powerless to change it, maybe it's time to embrace what...


Five agreements between my partner and I that has kept our relationship strong for 18 years and counting
There is a ton of science behind why some relationships thrive while others fall apart. But when it comes down to it, we don't need to...


If you're doing this (common) thing, you're sabotaging your relationship. Here's what to do instead
When you argue, are you arguing to understand? To work it out? Or, like most of us, are you arguing to WIN? Here's a hard truth: If one...


Are you ready? Because asking what you SHOULD do is not the question to get the relationship you want...
The world is constantly asking us to question: "What SHOULD I do?" Should I clean the house? Play with my kid? Tell my partner how I...


Weird Question for you: Do you know your CNB about your partner? Here's why it's important that you do...
Have you ever wondered HOW you end up in the same conflict, regardless of the topic of conversation? We all have CORE NEGATIVE BELIEFS....


A healthy relationship starts in your own head, so here's an exercise you can do RIGHT NOW
If you got notification of this blog post, it's because you signed up for real, actual tips and tools to take your relationship to the...


I used to be annoyed ALL the time.
Every little thing he did would set me off. Until I realized this: It wasn't anger. Yes, I felt annoyed, yes it came out of my mouth as...
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